There will always be days where you had a
bad class for one reason or another.
The problem is, sometimes you gauge your
whole life’s training on that last class.
Occasionally, I have come home thinking…”boy
did that suck…boy did I suck, more accurately!”
There is no doubt as we try and achieve the
next level to our skill we will have set backs.
It happens at all levels, I remember it as
green belt and I remember it last week!
These are the times where you should reflect(this
is the important part) on what went wrong, without the emotional Debbie Downer attitude,
think over the mistakes made.
Write down your thoughts, questions and
maybe what you could have done better. Pick one thing you want to improve upon
and focus in on changing it for the better. If it’s a giant list of things to
fix, keep it as a list and save the other items for another day.
Bring your focus and your questions to next
class, then, before you know it …Shazam! You’re feeling back in the groove
again.
People are generally hard on themselves.
Don’t buy into the “Only as good as your
last performance”.
Martial Arts should be a lifelong pursuit,
be patient with yourself, allow yourself to fail.
The only thing that is mandatory is Effort,
the rest will come with time and guidance.
So next time you are feelin’ bummed out, relax,
reset, and just get back to class!
Sometimes after reading a blog, I just feel I must say something.....I agree with your conclusion, no, I agree with it all, except for the bad class because I wasn't there. However, all I wanted to say was, you are awesome, I've witnessed your instructing and I'm sure all your students see as I do!
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