My fear of failure

I hate to fail. Not just like everyone else. My face turns red and I feel super embarrassed. I can’t imagine yelling to the world that I screwed up. This will be a major challenge for me to be able to do it through I Ho Chuan.

I do see the benefit of fessing up to your failures. You can fix them and move on. But for me, I’m stuck on the whole telling people you failed. For that means you did something horribly wrong and you have to be corrected. What if those people you told think less of you now?

I know it’s not actually like that all the time. I’ll have to change my point of view on this whole telling people about how you failed thing. Not only because it’s to be expected, but because I know it will make me a better person in the end.

The only way I can see to get over this is to practice telling people how I’ve failed. I greatly admire all those who can do it. They are really brave.

Being able to say I have failed will definitely be one of my goals in the coming year.

Sihing Katlyn Kichko

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