My posts seem to be really negative. Not intentional, just kung fu seems to be a mixture of all the things I'm the worst at, so I have to work on it harder than anything else. I grew up quitting when things got difficult. I used to be an amazing little artist. I actually have friends from elementary and junior high finding me on Facebook, asking me if I ever went anywhere with it. My answer is no. The reason sadly is because when I tried drawing peoples faces, I couldn't do it perfectly right away so I gave it up entirely. I did the same with piano and guitar. I picked it up quite quickly but wasn't as good as the guy beside me so instead of learning from him, I quit. I wish I could tell younger Lindsay how talented she was and stupid she was to give up.
I don't want to do the same thing with kung fu. It's definitely not something that comes easy to me, but I do recognize the fact that I am progressing. The weapons training, will by far be my favorite part despite how much I argue with my weapon. Being in front of people is my least favorite, along with combinations. I have some things I have to do in order to keep going with my training. First, get the hip, knee and other appendages looked after and fixed, I can't keep going with the pains I'm having. Second, get on a proper diet so I stop shaking so much and get the nutrients I need. Third, work on my flexibility, I will be looking into hot yoga. Fourth, slowly get used to doing my kung fu in front of people. I will start this by showing my family my ropedart form, as well as practicing before and after classes with people around. Once I get all this looked after, I will start San Shao because I'm also horrible at sparring. My intention was to join that class sooner, but I have to prioritize and there's only 24 hours in a day. I think if I keep looking after one thing at a time, I won't get so overwhelmed.
I will stick to my Mon and Wed classes and Practices Fridays and Saturdays with the Shaolin Fitness. I need the other days to accomplish the other stuff on my list.
I Ho Chaun has definitely helped me focus on becoming a more mindful person. I am actively conscious about the decisions I make, how I treat others and the impact my words can have on people. I was surprised when another student thanked me for how I treated her when she first started. She said that she appreciated how helpful I was and she was so nervous it was nice for her to have a friendly face to approach. That's the kind of Sifu I want to be one day. The one that motivates the people that are afraid to step into the kwoon, to keep coming back, because I completely understand that feeling.
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