When I set my sights on a earning a black belt in Kung
Fu I never envisioned that it would be this difficult. Don't get me
wrong, I knew that it physically would be very difficult. I just never
thought about the mental side of the black belt much if at all. The
mental side of anything (work, personal etc) is the toughest thing to
keep focused. We all struggle with this and I am no exception. In fact
these past four weeks I have been finding myself struggling with this
more than I ever have before. These past four weeks have been very
difficult and I am struggling to grasp why?
I have
always enjoyed my training and I have for the most part always looked
forward to class and training. So why have these four weeks since I
have gotten back been so difficult? I think it has a lot to do with
getting settled back in to a new job, back to my old life and trying to
catch up on the the months that I have missed. Could it be the shorter
days and less sunlight that is having an impact as well? Could it be
that I have I am extra tough on myself for letting myself slide while I
was in South Carolina? What about losing sight and perspective on how
my Kung Fu serves me and not it? I think it's all of these things
rolled up into one and it has gotten me down. So instead of going to
class I avoided going and making excuses to myself of things I needed to
do that were more important. Once I made that first excuse for myself
the next one became easier and easier. The hardest thing to do was to
convince myself that I shouldn't give up. I made a commitment to my
team and Master Brinker that even if I failed at achieving my goals the
one thing we I couldn't do was quit. Quitting is something that I am
not accustomed to and that thought kept resonating in my mind.
I
decided on Saturday to go back to class. Square up what needed to be
squared and renew my commitment to my team and my training. I am very
glad that I listened to my gut and went back. It seems to have filled
an empty void that has been gnawing at my very core.
Mr. Repay
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